I really enjoy pillow talk. You know when women get together late at night, with the lights dim, and get really vulnerable with each other. Maybe this happens at a retreat before everyone turns in for the night, or maybe it's just a night when you and your friends are sitting on the couch with fuzzy blankets (that's what happens at my house!). I love these conversations. I love the beauty in the openness that happens during these talks, and the bond and trust that is formed and deepened. Sometimes what is shared are the great things going, and sometimes what is shared is the struggle and heart break. And let me tell you that “pillow talk” is code for what is shared here stays here.